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Q: I've been thinking a lot recently about what my wife does as a stay-at-home mom caring for two little kids. I know I'm prone to taking her for granted. I have to work full-time, but how can I help shoulder the load?

Jim: I'll never forget when my two now-adult sons were small. One evening when I got home from work, my frazzled wife, Jean, ...Read more

Q: I was devastated when my husband recently left me and moved in with another woman. My kids are confused because their dad has been lying to them about where he's living and the reasons for our separation. What can I tell them?

Jim: I'm very sorry to hear about your situation. While I can understand your desire to protect your kids' innocence...Read more

Q: My fiance and I are excitedly looking forward to getting married. But we've run into some disagreements regarding money. Should we have joint or separate bank accounts after we're married?

Jim: This is a common question -- and you'll hear various opinions. In my mind, a "yours and mine" mentality isn't conducive to a happy, healthy marriage....Read more

Q: What do we say to our kids when Grandpa and Grandma play favorites? My parents are clearly partial to my daughter -- their first grandchild -- over her little brother. He obviously notices but doesn't say much. Help?!?

Jim: I'd say that your top priority is to affirm your son (the youngest child). Reassure him that you've seen the signs of ...Read more